ThaiCupid has been around since 2005, boasts over 3 million members, and is backed by the Cupid Media network. On paper, it sounds like the gold standard for meeting Thai singles. In practice? A 1.8 out of 5 on Trustpilot, sneaky upsell tactics during checkout, and a subscription model that locks you in before you've even met anyone real.
If ThaiCupid has left you frustrated, MyAsianFriend.com takes an entirely different approach — one built around real women sharing real content, with no monthly subscription required.
ThaiCupid requires a paid subscription (Gold, Platinum, or Diamond) to do almost anything useful. Free members can browse profiles but can't initiate conversations with other free members. That means you have to commit $35 to $70 per month before you know whether anyone on the platform is worth talking to.
Then there's the checkout trick. During the subscription process, ThaiCupid pushes a bundled offer that includes Dating.com — a completely separate site. The "subscribe only to ThaiCupid" option is buried as a small text link below a large green button. This means your profile may end up on multiple sites in the Cupid Media network without you realizing it. Reviewers have flagged this as deliberately misleading.
The Cupid Media network connection creates another issue: your "Thai dating site" profile gets recycled across AsianDating, InternationalCupid, and other platforms. The 3 million member claim starts to look different when you realize those aren't all unique, active users specifically looking for Thai connections.
Pay for what you want, not a subscription. Sign up free on MyAsianFriend and you'll get 30 credits to start chatting with the women right away. When you're ready, top up your balance and use Hearts to unlock exclusive blog content, request custom photos or videos, tip creators, or arrange sponsorships. Each Heart costs about $0.50 USD, and you only spend when you choose. There's never a recurring charge unless you decide to buy more.
See who you're talking to — every single day. Every creator on MyAsianFriend posts daily photo blogs. Not a static profile picture uploaded once and forgotten — actual daily content showing you their life, their personality, what they look like right now. The free tier (Section 1) is always visible. More intimate content unlocks with Hearts. This means you know exactly who you're connecting with before you spend anything.
All profiles are real and verified. MyAsianFriend doesn't have 3 million profiles because it doesn't need them. It has around 150 active, verified Thai creators — real women and ladyboys who are personally known to the site operator. There are zero fake profiles, zero bots, and zero recycled accounts from other sites. When you message someone on MyAsianFriend, there's a real person on the other end.
Your profile stays on one site. Unlike ThaiCupid's cross-network sharing, your MyAsianFriend account exists only on MyAsianFriend. Your information isn't being sold or shared across a portfolio of dating sites.
ThaiCupid is fundamentally a messaging platform — you search profiles, you send messages, you hope for a reply. MyAsianFriend offers a much richer experience. Beyond chat, you can enjoy daily photo blogs with tiered content, live webcam sessions, custom photo and video requests, micro-sponsorship arrangements, and new AI-powered features like AI photo editing and AI video generation.
The micro-sponsorship feature is especially unique. If you connect with a creator and want to support her on an ongoing basis, you can arrange regular sponsorship — and she receives 90% of everything you send. It's a direct connection that benefits the women, not a corporation.
| Feature | ThaiCupid | MyAsianFriend |
|---|---|---|
| Pricing | $35–$70/month subscription | Pay-as-you-go (Hearts) |
| Profile sharing | Shared across Cupid Media network | Your account stays on one site |
| Daily content | Static profiles | Daily photo blogs from every creator |
| Profile verification | Optional badge, many unverified | All creators personally verified |
| Women & ladyboys | Separate sites for each | Both on one platform |
| Webcam | No | Yes — live sessions |
| Custom content | No | Custom photos & videos |
| Sponsorship | No | Micro-sponsorships (90% to creator) |
| AI features | None | AI photo editing + AI video |
| Trustpilot | 1.8/5 | New & growing |
ThaiCupid is a corporate dating machine. MyAsianFriend is an independent platform built by someone who lives in Thailand and personally knows every creator on the site. If you're tired of paying $50 a month to send messages into the void, try a platform where real women post real content every day and actually want to talk to you.
Sign up free at MyAsianFriend.com — browse profiles, check out daily blogs, and see for yourself before spending anything.
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